hi. hey. hello.

I’m Jen. (she/her)

I’m an educator, coach, and community builder.

I am a (certified) relationship coach who supports people in navigating relationships, communication, consent, and boundaries without shame.

With a grounded, inclusive, and honest style; my approach is to create spaces where curiosity is welcome and hard conversations can happen safely.

I am here for you.

I live as open and as authentically as I do so that I can create meaningful connections and safe spaces for those who are trying to do the same.

I advocate for you, I empower you, and then magic happens.

I am honored to offer inclusive, sex-positive relationship coaching rooted in consent, communication, and curiosity.

My work is practical, collaborative, and informed - focused on real-life tools, not rigid rules. Whether you’re navigating relationship structure, identity shifts, or major transitions, we unlearn old scripts and build connections that feel safer, clearer, and more aligned with you.

my services

  • Relationship Coaching

    1:1 & Relationship Coaching

    Relationships aren’t one-size-fits-all… and neither is support.

    I offer inclusive, sex-positive coaching for individuals, couples, and multi-partner dynamics navigating love, intimacy, desire, identity shifts, conflict, and change. Whether you’re questioning relationship structure, rebuilding trust, clarifying boundaries, or wanting deeper connection, we slow things down and build tools that work in real life.

    My approach is collaborative, consent-led, and practical. No scripts. No moral hierarchy. Just honest conversations and intentional design.

    You might come to coaching if you are:

    - Navigating monogamy, non-monogamy, or transitions between

    - Struggling with communication or recurring conflict

    - Exploring identity, desire, or shifting relationship roles

    - Rebuilding safety after rupture

    - Wanting more aliveness, clarity, or depth

    - Support can be 1:1 or with partners.

  • Workshops & Education

    Learning in Community

    Some conversations are easier when we’re not having them alone.

    I offer interactive workshops and educational sessions on topics like:

    - Foundations of ethical non-monogamy

    - Boundaries vs agreements vs rules

    - Communication frameworks

    - Consent, Desire, arousal, and shame

    - Radical relationship design

    Workshops are practical, grounded, and discussion-based designed to give you language, frameworks, and tools you can immediately apply.

  • Tools & Resources

    Practical Support Beyond Sessions

    Not everyone needs ongoing coaching… sometimes you need language, structure, or a starting point.

    I create and share tools that help you:

    - Clarify boundaries and needs

    - Navigate hard conversations

    - Reflect on relationship values

    - Understand common non-monogamy frameworks

    - Unpack internalized shame

    - Rebuild safety and self-trust

    These include downloadable guides, worksheets, curated resource lists, and educational materials designed to be accessible, inclusive, and actionable.

    Because healthy relationships aren’t built on vibes alone… they’re built on skills.

what is a coach?

Coaching is a collaborative relationship between a trained coach and a client looking for self-discovery, self-awareness, and a deeper sense of satisfaction and fulfillment. Coaching is not therapy. Coaches will not unearth past events and heal your emotional wounds.

Coaching integrates with traditional talk-therapy practices to help you move forward and build the tools that you create for yourself!

It is my belief that people are not broken and therefore don’t need to be fixed.

The client, not the coach, is the expert in their own life. The role of the coach is to support the client as they discover their own answers from within. I'm not an advice giver... I am simply an extension of you, empowering you all the way through a situation. 

my role as a coach includes:

  • discovering, clarifying, and aligning with what the client wants to achieve

  • encouraging a client’s self-discovery

  • eliciting client-generated solutions and strategies

  • holding the client responsible and accountable

why work with me?

certifications and education:

My values in life are to stay curious, get vulnerable, be authentic, and to have courage. These values help me to continue my work in helping others thrive.

My priority in coaching is to make sure there is alignment for the client. Because coaching is a collaborative process, clients need to be able to trust their coach.

who I am

  • ethically non-monogamous

  • queer

  • sex positive

  • trauma informed

get in touch

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@your_kaboom